The Art of Duality: Being a Creative Perfectionist
Creativity and perfectionism. They aren’t the best of friends.
To create is to embrace uncertainty — to let an idea unfold without knowing exactly where it will lead. Perfectionism thrives on control, structure, and an unwavering desire to make sense of things. So how does one live within both of these realms without constantly feeling at war with themselves?
Creativity without perfectionism may not be seen for what it is,
and perfectionism without creativity may never be seen at all.
By honoring both sides and allowing both sides to shine.
As a writer, I’ve been forced to learn, accept, and eventually love that perfection doesn’t live in the act of creation. It is imperative to surrender to the unknown — to let the words flow without overanalyzing and questioning if they are good enough. The creative process demands freedom. A true willingness to explore without the weight of expectations. But the side of me that still seeks structure doesn’t need to be abandoned — its role is essential as well.
Being a bit of a perfectionist saves me in the later stages of the creative process. When I return to the words I’ve drafted, diving in to refine and shape the worlds they build, this side of myself takes center stage. It releases the impossible, idealistic version I may have once chased, digging deeper to reveal the version that is truest to the story. To the art. To me.
The version where every sentence serves its purpose and my message is clear, even in what remains unsaid.
This is the balance. The harmony. It is flowing with the wind to bring the story to fruition, then grounding myself to fine-tune it.
And this process is entirely personal — whether self-editing until intuition tells you the work is ready, or collaborating with a trusted editor that understands the vision and values the story being shared. Either way, it is about respecting both the freedom to create and the discipline to refine.
The art of duality isn’t about eliminating one side in favor of the other. It’s about understanding that both parts of you are essential. Creativity without perfectionism may not be seen for what it is, and perfectionism without creativity may never be seen at all. But together, they spark inspiration, evolve perspectives, and return us to ourselves by allowing us to release art that is uniquely ours.
-A.
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